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Are You Unlucky In Love? Here’s How You Can Turn That Around

Have you ever wondered how some people manage to find “the one” at one go while others scurry around in a bid to find even meaningful connections? The traditional understanding of love and relationships tell us that if you are relatively good looking with a decent personality, love will effortlessly come to you. But we all probably know that person who is attractive and charming and yet struggles to find the elusive “love of their life.” Maybe chances are that you are that person. And if you have been struggling for a long time, you may start to feel like an unlucky loser at the game of love. Here’s how you can change that:

Get rid of the victim mentality

If you have a habit of blaming everyone and everything else for your terrible luck in love, it means that you are a victim of the victim mentality. Shedding is one of the first things you need to do if you want your luck to turn. You must not let the perceived injustices against you define who you are. Also, if you constantly project yourself as a wronged, unlovable person to the world, it is what you will actually turn into.

Stop repeating past mistakes

If you have been cheated on in more than one relationship, know that it is not exactly your fault – your partners are obviously the ones to blame. But if you are ignoring the signs of cheating, as you did in your previous relationship(s), you are also somewhere complicit in the situation. In the world of dating, there is nothing worse than repeating past mistakes, and ignoring the warning signs is a mistake that surely can take your luck in love up for a toss.

Avoid self-sabotage

Quite often, even when we are in a seemingly successful relationship, there arises a tendency to sabotage it. It may manifest in behavioral changes such as the need to make a mountain out of a molehill even the matter at hand is insignificant. This happens because somewhere in your subconscious, you begin doubting your ability to be with someone and getting afraid that you do not have what it takes to be in a healthy, loving relationship. Trying to eliminate that doubt and fear is the key to avoiding self-sabotage.

Sometimes, no matter what we do, it may seem like things never work out the way we want them to. Pandit Arjun Swami Ji is here to alleviate such problems. One of the most well-known Indian astrologers in the country, he can give you all the advice you need for love, relationships, compatibility, marriage, and so on, through love astrology. He can also provide potent love spells for you to invite love and positive connections into your life.